EMDR therapist in NYC & across NY, NJ & TX

A space to find clarity. Support from someone who gets it.

Meet Patrycja Szymczak, LMHC-D, LPC. You're tired of only being able to rely on yourself. Luckily, you don't have to anymore.

Patrycja Szymczak

Who I work with

I work with people who…

  • Have built a solid life on paper but feel stuck, like something important is still missing.
  • Notice the same patterns showing up (people-pleasing, overthinking, avoiding hard conversations) and are ready to do something about it.
  • Are at a turning point after a loss, a breakup, a big move or a career change, and are wondering "what now?"
  • Still feel they're not "good enough" despite career success and carrying a lot of responsibility at home.
  • Want meaningful relationships but struggle to trust, set boundaries, or let others see what's really going on inside.
  • Sometimes worry it's too late to build the life or relationship they truly want, but know something needs to change.

How we'll work together

Looking at the bigger picture and connecting to what really matters to you.

We'll slow things down so you can actually hear yourself think, without the noise of outside opinions or the worries holding you back. I'll guide you in tuning into what's going on underneath the surface, and we'll get curious about the patterns keeping you stuck so we can gently start shifting them.

I'll help you find clarity about, and act on, what matters to you, not just what's expected of you.

Patrycja Szymczak in her office

Therapy with me is…

What to expect

01

Tailored to where you are

No one-size-fits-all approach. Some days you'll know what you want to work on; other days you may just need to sit and breathe. I pull from different tools depending on what you need, from grounding exercises to unpacking the conversation you keep replaying. You won't be expected to share your whole life story on day one.

02

Trauma-informed, mind and body

Feelings don't just live in your mind but in your body too: tightness in your chest, a knot in your stomach, tension in your shoulders. When we slow down and notice what's happening physically, it gets clearer what you actually need.

03

About understanding yourself

You may have spent years doing what was expected: climbing the ladder, saying yes when you meant no, staying quiet to avoid conflict. Behind every behavior is a need. Together we'll find better ways to meet those needs and make space for your own voice. This is your space to be honest, messy and real.

04

Clinical training and lived experience

Before becoming a therapist I spent over a decade working closely with families from many cultural backgrounds. That, plus training in EMDR, CBT, parts work, mindfulness, NLP and therapeutic hypnosis, shapes how I work with grief, transitions and the feeling of not quite belonging.

"Therapy is most powerful when it honors both what you're working through now and everything it took to get here."

Credentials

Education, licenses & training

Education & licensure

  • Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege (LMHC-D), New York
  • Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), New Jersey
  • Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Texas
  • Master's in Mental Health Counseling, Brooklyn College
  • Bachelor's in Psychology & Sociology, Hunter College

Trainings & certifications

  • Trained in Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Trauma-Informed Counselor
  • Certified in Advanced Grief Counseling (CAGCS)
  • Certified Trainer / Master Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Ericksonian Hypnosis

My specialties

Where I can help

01

Anxiety & stress

Get out of survival mode and quiet the constant what-ifs.

Learn more →
02

Dating & breakups

Love and be loved without sacrificing yourself.

Learn more →
03

Grief & loss

Process change and grief at your own pace.

Learn more →

You do not have to stay stuck.

Together we can figure out what's next.

Book my free consult →